Coming Closer

Have you ever wondered why, despite endless conversations, books, and even therapy, your relationships still feel stuck or disconnected? Why does it seem so hard to feel safe, seen, and fully expressed—especially in moments of intimacy? For many, the missing link isn’t knowledge or words. It’s the body. This is where somatic intimacy coaching offers something different—and profoundly transformational. What Is a Somatic Intimacy Coach? A somatic intimacy coach helps individuals and couples reconnect with themselves and others through the wisdom of the body. “Somatic” comes from the Greek word soma , meaning the living body. Rather than staying in the head, this approach invites you to feel—your breath, your boundaries, your emotions, and your sensations. At Coming Closer , André Lazarus blends somatic techniques with trauma-informed intimacy coaching to guide people into deeper, embodied connection. Through breathwork, movement, nervous system awareness, and guided exercises, clients ...

Have you ever sat across from your partner, feeling like strangers even after years together? Or maybe you've been single for a while, craving connection but unsure how to get past your own emotional walls. The truth is, relationships—no matter how beautiful—are rarely effortless. They require tending, presence, and sometimes, professional support. This is where the modern-day guide to intimacy steps in: the relationship coach . But we’re not talking about generic advice or cliché one-size-fits-all love strategies. We’re talking about deeply somatic, emotionally intelligent coaching that acknowledges your unique patterns, your trauma, and your potential for joy. We’re talking about the transformative work offered by Coming Closer , the somatic intimacy coaching practice led by André Lazarus . The Difference Between Advice and Transformation Let’s be honest—if advice alone could save relationships, Google would’ve already made us all masters of love. But most of us don’t need more ...

In today’s fast-paced world, where distractions abound and meaningful connection often feels fleeting, the desire for intimate intimacy has never been greater. But what exactly is intimate intimacy, and how do we cultivate it in our lives and relationships? Whether you’re exploring free sexuality , navigating an open relationship, or seeking guidance from a seasoned sex therapist , understanding the layers of intimacy can open the door to deeper connection and profound healing. At Coming Closer , we believe intimacy is not just about physical closeness—it’s about creating a sacred space where vulnerability, trust, and emotional safety thrive. Inspired by the teachings of experts like Andre Lazarus , an esteemed open relationship coach and intimacy guide, this blog will walk you through practical steps to deepen your intimate intimacy and foster meaningful healing. What is Intimate Intimacy? Intimate intimacy goes beyond the surface-level acts of physical touch or sexual activity. It’...